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Starting Small Routines for ADHD: 5 Easy Ways to Kickstart Your Day

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By Liz Wooten, LPC

With over 14 years in mental health, I’m a neurodiversity-affirming therapist who’s been there myself. As someone who’s AuDHD, I understand the challenges and strengths that come with different wiring. I specialize in supporting neurodiverse individuals and families, blending compassion with evidence-based strategies. From navigating emotional ups and downs to finding routines that truly fit, I’m here to help you feel more balanced and in control. If you’d like to know more about my approach and how we can work together, learn more about me here.

TL;DR:

    • Starting Small Routines for ADHD can reduce overwhelm by focusing on tiny, doable changes.
    • Attach mini-habits to tasks you already do—like brushing your teeth—to make new routines feel easier.
    • Celebrate small wins to keep your motivation going and build momentum over time.
    • Scale gently by adding one tiny step before piling on more. Less pressure, more success.

Why Start Now?

Hey there, I’m Liz. With the new year on the horizon, I’ve been thinking about how simple shifts can make our daily lives feel more manageable. Before we jump into a full series on routines, I wanted to share this bonus piece that helps us dip our toes in gently.

Picture Jess: a busy professional in her late 20s, juggling a demanding job alongside night classes. She often wakes up feeling like the day starts at top speed—no breathing room or plan, just a pile of “to-do’s” that never ends. Sound familiar?

In this quick read, we’ll explore how “starting small” with routines can give you the structure you crave without piling on more stress—especially if you’re already running on fumes like Jess. Think tiny, practical steps that build momentum and keep your mind from spinning.

Ready to discover how a few small habits can add a sense of calm to your day? Let’s ease our way in, one little step at a time.

Where We Left Off

Last week, we explored how daily routines support mental health . We dug into why having a structure in place can lower anxiety and boost focus.

This week, we’re zooming in on a major reason people struggle to start — feeling like they have to do it all at once. By zeroing in on small routines for ADHD and everyday life, we’ll show you how to gently build habits without getting overwhelmed.

Why Overwhelm Happens

Have you ever tried to overhaul your entire day all at once and ended up feeling paralyzed? Especially if you’re juggling ADHD or anxiety, your mind may label a big routine as impossible, triggering decision fatigue and mental gridlock.

Research shows small habits work best because they let your brain celebrate quick wins. Once you taste success—even if it’s just a two-minute step—your motivation skyrockets. That’s when a ripple effect begins, quietly encouraging you to do a little bit more.

Why Starting Small Works

Less Pressure: A tiny step, like setting out your mug before bed, feels more doable than a fully scheduled morning routine. Builds Confidence: Each tiny win sparks a “Yes, I can do this!” feeling. These bite-sized victories add up, fueling your motivation to expand later. Easier on the Brain: For a neurodiverse mind, fewer steps mean less internal resistance. That keeps you from feeling defeated before you even begin.

Real-Life Moments from Clients

One of my clients, Serena, juggles a demanding job plus her ADHD. She felt overwhelmed every morning by cluttered counters and a mental to-do list that stretched a mile long. So we picked one small habit: a 3-minute “put-away session” each night. After two weeks, she noticed her mornings felt calmer because those counters stayed relatively clear.

Another client, Dave, struggled with concentration first thing in the morning. We added a single-minute deep-breathing exercise right after he poured his coffee. He loved how it anchored his day: “It’s silly how quick it is, but it stops me from rushing onto the next thing without settling my mind.”

Seeing these tiny changes pay off is exactly why I’m so passionate about Starting Small Routines for ADHD. It’s all about building momentum in a way that respects your energy levels.

5 Ways to Jump-Start Your Day

Here are some simple tweaks to ease into your morning without feeling overwhelmed:

  • Micro-Planner Moment: Right after you wake up, take 60 seconds to glance at your top 3 priorities. This short check-in sets a calm tone instead of panic mode.
  • Mini-Declutter: Move or throw away just one item that’s bugging you—like that random pile of mail. A tiny declutter can give you a little mental lift.
  • Stretch & Sip: While your tea or coffee brews, do a 2-minute stretch. It’s a soothing break for your body that fits neatly into a routine you already have.
  • Quick Mood Note: Write down one sentence about how you feel. Recognizing your mood early can guide how you approach the rest of your day.
  • Reward Yourself: After each micro-step, give yourself a small pat on the back or a mental “High five!”—you’ve earned it. Rewards build that good habit loop in your brain.

Next Steps

“Starting Small Routines for ADHD” isn’t about reinventing your whole life overnight. It’s about layering one little habit on top of something you already do, celebrating that success, and then moving on to the next small step. You’ll see momentum build naturally—without the anxiety that massive changes often bring.

If you’d like some one-on-one guidance or want to explore more ways to manage ADHD, feel free to check out ADHD Therapy in St. Louis . I’m here to help you transform those tiny actions into meaningful progress.

Ready to get started? Pick one micro-habit from this list—or create your own—and give it a go tomorrow morning. I promise those small wins will add up faster than you think.

*The information here is meant to guide and inform, not replace the care of a qualified healthcare professional. If you have questions or concerns about a medical or mental-health condition, please reach out to a trusted provider. The examples shared are based on general personas—no personal health details are used. At Enlitens, your privacy is a top priority, and we fully comply with HIPAA regulations to keep your information safe and confidential.

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